Moral kidnapping

“I spent 4 hours on that soup, I expect you to love it.”

“I did this for you, I gave my best to you, why don’t you appreciate it?”

“I am giving all my heart to you, so I am expecting the same from you.”

Let’s calm down and think about it. Do you really do this for the other person, or just for yourself? Moral kidnapping does not get you a warm response. It only gets you resistance.